She may be known as your mom, stepmother, or mother figure in your life, but she’s played a big role in planning for your wedding day. Since day one, she’s been by your side shopping for your perfect dress, selecting your vendor team, and all the moments in between. Honoring your mother on your wedding day is a sweet way to remind her how grateful you are to have her be a part of this significant celebration.
Ask her to help you walk down the aisle
Your grand entrance into the ceremony is one of the most anticipated moments of the day. While it’s traditional for brides to walk down the aisle with their father, asking your mother to help escort you down the aisle will honor her and make her feel truly special. After the walk down the aisle, surprise her with a sweet reserved sign and an embroidered handkerchief on her seat. Or write her a thank you note and tuck it in the ceremony program on her chair. She’s sure to cherish these unexpected details from your ceremony for the rest of her life.
Include the rose ceremony wedding tradition
If your mother isn’t comfortable with being in the spotlight, consider the rose tradition in your Order of Ceremony. Ask your floral designer to include two single roses for you to carry with your bouquet. After walking down the aisle with your father, you and your soon-to-be-groom will each take a rose to present to your mothers before starting the ceremony. It’s a unique wedding tradition and a touching way to honor your mothers on this special day.
Wear a family heirloom from your mother-in-law
Your wedding commemorates a significant milestone of creating a new legacy with your spouse. Incorporating one of your mother-in-law’s family heirlooms into your wedding day look is a meaningful way to honor her. It’s a unique way to recognize the adage of the “something borrowed” tradition.
Have a first look with your mom
Slipping into your wedding gown and seeing you for the first time on your wedding day is a moment every mother looks forward to. Honor your mother on your wedding day with a private moment alone as she helps you finish getting dressed. These quiet moments with the two of you will be memories she’ll treasure and cherish for years to come.
Share a mother-daughter dance at the reception
The father-daughter dance is a time-honored wedding tradition. For brides who no longer have their fathers with them, it can be an emotional moment. Some brides choose to share a special dance with their mothers instead. Consider choreographing a dance to a meaningful song to give your guests an unexpected surprise.